Break up

[lostintime25]

hey guys... i just went through a really hard time, and ended up breaking up with my boyfriend of 1 year, which sadly is my longest relationship. It was the most meaningful one too, and the worst is that we both love eachother so much, but we are SOO not right for eachother and it kills me that it took me a year to realize, i wish he would have had a sign on him that said, we wont get along : (

[rachelskid]

ahhhhh....:( I'm sorry.

But, you know THIS is what makes life worth living, as hard as that is to believe. You have learned from him the things you want in a guy and the things you do not. and, you have great memories. the pain sucks. i know. but you WILL be ok. and you will be grateful for the time you had with him.

in the meantime, the forum is here! :)

lively music and a little dancing around by yourself is always fun. and going out with friends too.

[Here'sLOCKEing at you,Kid]

well, stick around, Lostintime, because there are wonderful people here who have broad shoulders to lean on. It is amazing the friendships you can find here.

[lostintime25]

thanks, that's what I'm trying to keep telling myself. Music is totally helping and I'm just immersing myself with lost and friends and other things. our memories are great, we had a lot of fun, but it just wasn't working.

[Here'sLOCKEing at you,Kid]

it didn't work for Kate and Sawyer either. I think we can find lessons from the show, actually.
you will find your soul mate eventually, Lostintime.

[boutte]

How old are you? Forgive me for asking.

[lostintime25]

thank you guys for all of your support, when things started getting rough I got isolated from most of my friends, which made the break up even harder because I was pretty much starting over. Uhm, as far as the age question I don't know how comfortable I am answering that, I feel like I am younger than most of you, but I am legal lol

[stream]

{{{{{{{{huggs}}}}}} sweety most men ar pigs, and the sooner you learn the better off you are, no I am kidding, but it is hard to stay synced up with people these days, you can do better anyhow

[chester]

What's your star-sign? Likes, dislikes, etc?

[notsolost42]

{{{{{{{{huggs}}}}}} sweety most men ar pigs, and the sooner you learn the better off you are, no I am kidding, but it is hard to stay synced up with people these days, you can do better anyhow

roflmao.....pfffttt :D

[lostintime25]

haha, it makes me feel better being hit on than being yelled at... and i am a Pisces for anyone wondering and no i didn't imply you were old i implied that i'm a youngster... as always i'm like the runt... small too lol

[boutte]

thank you guys for all of your support, when things started getting rough I got isolated from most of my friends, which made the break up even harder because I was pretty much starting over. Uhm, as far as the age question I don't know how comfortable I am answering that, I feel like I am younger than most of you, but I am legal lol
The only reason i ask is because I think most of us go through a first love as young adults and of course we get our hearts broken for the first time. It feels like you're never going to get over it and in many ways you never do. But you learn a lot and you move on to the next phase of your life.

When you get old and crickety you'll remember your first love and smile. (And you'll try to tell your daughter but she won't listen you.)

[rachelskid]

Slips quietly out of here.

LOL! you can stay. what you said was very sweet. :)

[lostintime25]

haha thanks, and as young as i am he wasnt my first love.. i have actually had many.. well that needs some describing, i am a very loving person and love all of my friends, i have been in love with 4 men, two were unrequited... haha but boy i tried... so, what would you have done in my situation. Going out with a guy (will) for 6 months, and i feel it come crashing down (he was one of the four), so i go to guy two (tyler)... well i guess he is my third love but for this example he is the second guy. He is holding me and making all my hurt go away, perfect time for a kiss... and i don't because i didnt want to cheat on will... even though i broke up with him within the week. now, let me tell you... tyler is a god among men... he had every perfect feature, the perfect voice... but god did he know how to lure you in... i fight that every day... should i have kissed him, or not, it would have been hard after kissing him (thats what she said not intended) to forget about him, but i still wish i could have that memory to look back on of him. idk.. what would you have done?

[stream]

you shush Ches, girl talk

[lostintime25]

haha ches... that would have been a terrible mistake, all i would have wanted was a kiss... just something to remember him by before he became the jerk that he is... that took some strength to tone down my language haha

[lostintime25]

haha chessie, you remind me of one of my friends i can't tell which one lol

[rachelskid]

wanna hear the bro code ? lol hope you are ok there youngblood . hang in there like the ladies said . oh and just give it some time to heal , if i were you i wouldn't latch on to just any guy until you know he is right for you dont just rush into anything after a breakup . things are always a little cloudy after a breakup . so chin up and sit up straight and go kick some ass at whatever it is you do . peace im out >

the bro code is loud and clear. always. thanks though. :)

[boutte]

what do you mean what does it mean? means what it says. its like bros before hos. ;)

That's not what I thought that meant.

[lostintime25]

no worries there, i definitely need this space and extra time, i have to finish my dress that im working on by the 16th!!!

[rachelskid]

That's not what I thought that meant.

WTH did you and chester think it meant??

[lostintime25]

im glad it has taken a funny note... i laugh easily and totally could use the humor! I am a cynic too i must be bipolar or something i swear im the most optimistic and pessimistic person i know hahah, it doesn't help that i love cats and will probably end up being a crazy cat lady with hundreds of cats

[boutte]

WTH did you and chester think it meant??

I was still trying to figure it out.

[lostintime25]

what is so clear for women can be so confusing for men... its like they are reading between the wrong lines haha

[lostie108]

haha thanks, and as young as i am he wasnt my first love.. i have actually had many.. well that needs some describing, i am a very loving person and love all of my friends, i have been in love with 4 men, two were unrequited... haha but boy i tried... so, what would you have done in my situation. Going out with a guy (will) for 6 months, and i feel it come crashing down (he was one of the four), so i go to guy two (tyler)... well i guess he is my third love but for this example he is the second guy. He is holding me and making all my hurt go away, perfect time for a kiss... and i don't because i didnt want to cheat on will... even though i broke up with him within the week. now, let me tell you... tyler is a god among men... he had every perfect feature, the perfect voice... but god did he know how to lure you in... i fight that every day... should i have kissed him, or not, it would have been hard after kissing him (thats what she said not intended) to forget about him, but i still wish i could have that memory to look back on of him. idk.. what would you have done?

hey this tyler guy is playing you . sorry to tell you but he is definately running the oh i hope you feel better game , and then blammo its all donesville , dont fall for guys when you are just trying to use them as a shoulder to cry on . dont use them as a new boy toy because the lustfulness is actually lonliness and once that is gone he will be to . not in all situations is this true but in most cases this is a great way for a guy friend to get the girl he has wanted all along . i am being serious i have seen it happen way to much . guys hanging with girls acting like friends but naturally wanting more so they patiently wait until you are vulnerable and try and cash in . i am not trying to hurt your feelings just trying to give some insight into young men . do you understand what i am getting at basically do not let your guard down after a breakup give it a month or even longer however long it takes and then when your ready if this guy tyler or whomever is still there as a friend to you and you really do enjoy him then see if things can progress naturally dont jump into the deep end too quick .

[lostie108]

[QUOTE=notsolost42;380274]I am sorry but this thread has become hilarious! I am sorry for your troubles lostintime, life happens. I have no comforting words. I am a cynic. All men are pigs. :D[/QUOTEhahahaha

[boutte]

hey this tyler guy is playing you . sorry to tell you but he is definately running the oh i hope you feel better game , and then blammo its all donesville , dont fall for guys when you are just trying to use them as a shoulder to cry on . dont use them as a new boy toy because the lustfulness is actually lonliness and once that is gone he will be to . not in all situations is this true but in most cases this is a great way for a guy friend to get the girl he has wanted all along . i am being serious i have seen it happen way to much . guys hanging with girls acting like friends but naturally wanting more so they patiently wait until you are vulnerable and try and cash in . i am not trying to hurt your feelings just trying to give some insight into young men . do you understand what i am getting at basically do not let your guard down after a breakup give it a month or even longer however long it takes and then when your ready if this guy tyler or whomever is still there as a friend to you and you really do enjoy him then see if things can progress naturally dont jump into the deep end too quick .
Good post 108.

[Jeremy]

I'm sorry to hear about this. Hope things get better soon.

It probably isn't my place to try to give advice, being one of the youngest people here, but I wouldn't wait too long for some fictional knight in shining armor or whatnot to come and fix anything. I'd been naive, believing in fairy tales about "soul mates", and they only end in either loneliness or settling for less. If you want to find true happiness, you have to be assertive.

[lostintime25]

hey this tyler guy is playing you . sorry to tell you but he is definately running the oh i hope you feel better game , and then blammo its all donesville , dont fall for guys when you are just trying to use them as a shoulder to cry on . dont use them as a new boy toy because the lustfulness is actually lonliness and once that is gone he will be to . not in all situations is this true but in most cases this is a great way for a guy friend to get the girl he has wanted all along . i am being serious i have seen it happen way to much . guys hanging with girls acting like friends but naturally wanting more so they patiently wait until you are vulnerable and try and cash in . i am not trying to hurt your feelings just trying to give some insight into young men . do you understand what i am getting at basically do not let your guard down after a breakup give it a month or even longer however long it takes and then when your ready if this guy tyler or whomever is still there as a friend to you and you really do enjoy him then see if things can progress naturally dont jump into the deep end too quick .

no i definitely knew that, even at that time, that was a long time ago though. I actually gave a talk about him at a retreat i led. I was so infatuated with him though, that i didn't care what his reasons for being next to me were

[lostintime25]

Jeremy thanks for stopping by, how old are you, out of curiosity I wonder if you are older than me or not

[krakup]

no i definitely knew that, even at that time, that was a long time ago though. I actually gave a talk about him at a retreat i led. I was so infatuated with him though, that i didn't care what his reasons for being next to me were

sorry things didnt work out this time lostintime25. try and keep an open mind though regards to love. just dont become another vicious b1tch, bitter and hateful

[notsolost42]

And this gives you the power to make sense out of things that don't make any sense?

It's the X chromosome.

[Jeremy]

Jeremy thanks for stopping by, how old are you, out of curiosity I wonder if you are older than me or not

No problem.

I'm 18, turning 19 in November. I'm glad I'm not old like Boutte or Lockeing or Notso. :p
But don't like feeling like a child either. If only Anton would return.

[lostintime25]

haha i would hope i am still pretty open minded, and i stopped believing in my knight in shinning armor... well.. i never actually believed that... i never really saw myself as the type to actually settle down... so whatever... im a firm believer that what is meant to happen will (and that whatever happens happens)

[lostintime25]

you mean the extra x notso lol! and cool jeremy im glad im not the only young one, idk though i've always gotton along better with adults... or i guess people older than me.

[boutte]

haha i would hope i am still pretty open minded, and i stopped believing in my knight in shinning armor... well.. i never actually believed that... i never really saw myself as the type to actually settle down... so whatever... im a firm believer that what is meant to happen will (and that whatever happens happens)
But you can change that. :p

[chester]

It's the X chromosome.

Pffft, everyone's got one of them. :p

[Jeremy]

you mean the extra x notso lol! and cool jeremy im glad im not the only young one, idk though i've always gotton along better with adults... or i guess people older than me.

That's because you can make fun of them and play tricks on them, right? :p

[lostintime25]

nice catch chessie! your name makes me happy.. its like the Cheshire cat... i just really needed to break off from scott because i am changing phases in my life (really big changes!!) and he didn't fit into those plans...

[lostintime25]

jeremy not really actually... i just feel like i have more important things to say than most kids my age... maybe thats why i like lost? i have always been a deep thinker... the only problem is most adults never cared what i had to say because i was a kid... now that im older its easier

[lostintime25]

ya, i don't plan on that happening but thanks for the heads up

[chester]

nice catch chessie! your name makes me happy.. its like the Cheshire cat... i just really needed to break off from scott because i am changing phases in my life (really big changes!!) and he didn't fit into those plans...

:) I used to have the cheshire cat as my avi.

Big life changes are fun and exciting. And stressful too of course. Finding things that make you happy, rather than not, definitely sounds like a good thing to be doing?

[notsolost42]

Pffft, everyone's got one of them. :p

not the homogametic kind :D

[lostintime25]

o ya, it was a good decision... but it took me a while to get there, and tons of tears and of course he couldnt understand why i was crying because i was breaking up with him. It wasn't good for us, but he will always have a special place in my heart just like will and adam... and tyler has a more hellish place... ok so will is sort of in the hell too haha, but im branded by them... my heart can't change that

[boutte]

o ya, it was a good decision... but it took me a while to get there, and tons of tears and of course he couldnt understand why i was crying because i was breaking up with him. It wasn't good for us, but he will always have a special place in my heart just like will and adam... and tyler has a more hellish place... ok so will is sort of in the hell too haha, but im branded by them... my heart can't change that

You're racking up quite a list of victims for such a young woman.

[lostintime25]

well see i have a really open heart... and adam happened when i was... well when i was a freshman in highschool, but i fell in love with him when i was 13... o god that sounds so young! but it was love alright. and then will... well we dont talk about him hahah. but between him and my most recent ex (scott) i really went crazy... started drinking (socially not alcoholic like) and i went through about... well first there was tyler, then michael, then josh, (there was gustavo and abe... but i think they were before will) and then andrew... and then scott... nothing actually happened with tyler... but god why did i go for will when tyler was right there... i met tyler a day after i met will... although i probably would be in way worse shape if i chose tyler haha. anyway... im actually a goody goody... not in a snotty sort of way (i hope haha) but i really dont get in trouble... or do anything to get me in trouble for actually

[chester]

well see i have a really open heart... and adam happened when i was... well when i was a freshman in highschool, but i fell in love with him when i was 13... o god that sounds so young! but it was love alright. and then will... well we dont talk about him hahah. but between him and my most recent ex (scott) i really went crazy... started drinking (socially not alcoholic like) and i went through about... well first there was tyler, then michael, then josh, (there was gustavo and abe... but i think they were before will) and then andrew... and then scott... nothing actually happened with tyler... but god why did i go for will when tyler was right there... i met tyler a day after i met will... although i probably would be in way worse shape if i chose tyler haha. anyway... im actually a goody goody... not in a snotty sort of way (i hope haha) but i really dont get in trouble... or do anything to get me in trouble for actually

Well lostin, I think you just described the main plotline for The OC...

[lostintime25]

hahahahhahahahha chessie unfortunately that is the lifestyle of where i live... and yes... my life is very soapopera esque!!

[stream]

well see i have a really open heart... and adam happened when i was... well when i was a freshman in highschool, but i fell in love with him when i was 13... o god that sounds so young! but it was love alright. and then will... well we dont talk about him hahah. but between him and my most recent ex (scott) i really went crazy... started drinking (socially not alcoholic like) and i went through about... well first there was tyler, then michael, then josh, (there was gustavo and abe... but i think they were before will) and then andrew... and then scott... nothing actually happened with tyler... but god why did i go for will when tyler was right there... i met tyler a day after i met will... although i probably would be in way worse shape if i chose tyler haha. anyway... im actually a goody goody... not in a snotty sort of way (i hope haha) but i really dont get in trouble... or do anything to get me in trouble for actually

wow you are matchin me and I am fom the seventies, aka the time between the time you couldn't and the time you couldn't

[lostintime25]

lol, that was actually one of my happiest years... because yes between will and scott wasnt even a year (my bad) adam was actually one of the first boys i ever really talked to, but after adam... things were kinda silent for a while

[lostintime25]

ok, this is too good of a moment to pass up. i am eating my grandmothers easter cookies, because she makes the best (doesnt everyones grandma?) anyway the eyes are always red hots, which i pick off. well my cat mervin was playing with them and i tried to push him away from them, but he wouldnt so he licked them a couple times, each time he licked it he didnt like it, but he refused to believe that he didnt like it so he kept licking it lol

[stream]

And this gives you the power to make sense out of things that don't make any sense?

yes of course

sorry things didnt work out this time lostintime25. try and keep an open mind though regards to love. just dont become another vicious b1tch, bitter and hateful

like the rest of us Krakers?

No problem.

I'm 18, turning 19 in November. I'm glad I'm not old like Boutte or Lockeing or Notso. :p
But don't like feeling like a child either. If only Anton would return.

ok Jeremy now you made my list, and it is not a good one

[lostintime25]

chessie i cant tell if your joke is to be taken sexually or not

[notsolost42]

yes of course



like the rest of us Krakers?



ok Jeremy now you made my list, and it is not a good one

ouch, two strikes. :eek:

[chester]

*whistles innocently*

[notsolost42]

whistling in the wind Chessie?

[Here'sLOCKEing at you,Kid]

No problem.

I'm 18, turning 19 in November. I'm glad I'm not old like Boutte or Lockeing or Notso. :p
But don't like feeling like a child either. If only Anton would return.

WTF!http://i291.photobucket.com/albums/ll308/lockekid/startledsmiley.gif

[boutte]

Yeah! Where is Anton?

[Refnu]

Drink your sorrows away!

[notsolost42]

WTF!http://i291.photobucket.com/albums/ll308/lockekid/startledsmiley.gif

^^^ What she said!!!!

[tcragg]

It feels like the end of the world when you lose a bf/gf at your tender age. I'm old now, gonna be 32, and it's still the same feeling but you learn from the past.
Its best to try to put things in perspective. It could be worse. I tell myself that often.
I mean, its not like you were married and had a child and caught your wife cheating on you with an actor who's ten years younger than you.
Oh..., I'm sorry...we were talking about you. Chin up, kid.

And you ladies need to know that women can be as bad as men, and there are some good guys out there too.

[stream]

It feels like the end of the world when you lose a bf/gf at your tender age. I'm old now, gonna be 32, and it's still the same feeling but you learn from the past.
Its best to try to put things in perspective. It could be worse. I tell myself that often.
I mean, its not like you were married and had a child and caught your wife cheating on you with an actor who's ten years younger than you.
Oh..., I'm sorry...we were talking about you. Chin up, kid.

And you ladies need to know that women can be as bad as men, and there are some good guys out there too.

where tc where

[Jeremy]

where tc where

They are on an island that nobody can find.

[Here'sLOCKEing at you,Kid]

They are on an island that nobody can find.

Hey, Jeremy... the Elders have a bone to pick with you... :D
If we call a meeting, you may have to be branded.

[stream]

funny kiddo, now I am calling you kiddo for the rest of this week

[3d-aholic]

{{{{{{{{huggs}}}}}} sweety most woman ar pigs, and the sooner you learn the better off you are, no I am kidding, but it is hard to stay synced up with people these days, you can do better anyhow
:eek:
Really...this is the most honest thing I believe I'ver ever heard from a woman.
:)


lostintime25...are you 25? Thats very young...much to learn. You have your whole life. Take your lessons and live the "pain"...the pain is there to teach you something....then after a reasonable time...learn from what it told you but set it aside because its probably not going to serve you very well after that time.

[rachelskid]

It feels like the end of the world when you lose a bf/gf at your tender age. I'm old now, gonna be 32, and it's still the same feeling but you learn from the past.
Its best to try to put things in perspective. It could be worse. I tell myself that often.
I mean, its not like you were married and had a child and caught your wife cheating on you with an actor who's ten years younger than you.
Oh..., I'm sorry...we were talking about you. Chin up, kid.

And you ladies need to know that women can be as bad as men, and there are some good guys out there too.

we do know! we really do.:D they just do not show themselves as oft as the bad ones. same is true for women, i know. its just most of us do not date women and we love all our girlfriends, so its hard to imagine you guys facing bad women. but, then, i started noticing some of the trash my guy friends found out there. i learned!:)

[stream]

:eek:
Really...this is the most honest thing I believe I'ver ever heard from a woman.


lostintime25...are you 25? Thats very young...much to learn. You have your whole life. Take your lessons and live the "pain"...the pain is there to teach you something....then after a reasonable time...learn from what it told you but set it aside because its probably not going to serve you very well after that time.

thanks 3D, and I think that is nice what you said, I guess you are not one of the pigs :)

[stream]

we do know! we really do.:D they just do not show themselves as oft as the bad ones. same is true for women, i know. its just most of us do not date women and we love all our girlfriends, so its hard to imagine you guys facing bad women. but, then, i started noticing some of the trash my guy friends found out there. i learned!:)

oh I have seen the bad girls, and the game players, I was one when I was young, just mean

[boutte]

where tc where

They're the ones you didn't want.

[krakup]

They're the ones you didn't want.

now aint that the truth

[stream]

all kidding aside we have only good boys in here, gentlemen n scholars

[Jeremy]

Hey, Jeremy... the Elders have a bone to pick with you... :D
If we call a meeting, you may have to be branded.

Aw man, I didn't mean it. Um...quick, look over there! It's Ben!

*quickly escapes by turning the donkey wheel*

[3d-aholic]

thanks 3D, and I think that is nice what you said, I guess you are not one of the pigs :)

lol :D
You didn't read all my post carefully. :eek:
:p

[krakup]

lol :D
You didn't read all my post carefully. :eek:
:p

i did you sneak

[LissaMarie]

i did you sneak

I caught that too, you cheeky boy. :p


On a side note, I think we should all be mindful that there are younger, teenage members here on the forum and in this thread so please keep it clean. I'm doing my best to keep my Mommy claws at bay so this is just a gentle reminder. :o :)

[krakup]

I caught that too, you cheeky boy. :p


On a side note, I think we should all be mindful that there are younger, teenage members here on the forum and in this thread so please keep it clean. I'm doing my best to keep my Mommy claws at bay so this is just a gentle reminder. :o :)

i think i said a bad word sorry :o

[LissaMarie]

i think i said a bad word sorry :o

No you didn't, Krak! Your post was very sweet, as always. :)

[3d-aholic]

I caught that too, you cheeky boy. :p

Hey...it wasn't me...all I did was create a mirror universe. ;)

[LissaMarie]

Hey...it wasn't me...all I did was create a mirror universe. ;)

LOL! I think Stream is gonna be miffed when she figures out your wordplay! :p

[lostintime25]

Jeremy what more can I say than thank you I think your post was absolutely hysterical well all of them and everyone thank you and tc- I really appreciate what you said I posted this like twenty minutes after it happened and never expected to see so much love and caring from all of you guys I really hope things don't end when the show does

[lostintime25]

O and ps tc- you are so not old!

[LissaMarie]

Jeremy what more can I say than thank you I think your post was absolutely hysterical well all of them and everyone thank you and tc- I really appreciate what you said I posted this like twenty minutes after it happened and never expected to see so much love and caring from all of you guys I really hope things don't end when the show does

You hang in there, LIT, and remember....

You wouldn't be able to find the love of your life if you were stuck in a lousy relationship, right? Now you're free to find him! :)

[JohnQ]

Breakups suck, but time wounds all heels.

[krakup]

Breakups suck, but time wounds all heels.

wth !!! lol

[Jelena]

Er, strange that someone should think anyone here as old or an adult. I wasn't aware we were anything resembling that.

Ah, the sweet sorrow of young love. :)

[Turnip Queen]

AWW I'm sorry to hear that! :( I think when you love someone it's really scary if you break up because you don't think you could love someone that way again. But you're young and you have plenty of time to meet many more men! Don't mope too much about it - get one of your friends over and have a laugh and make sure you spend a lot of time with them, it's the only way to get through it!

[chester]

chessie i cant tell if your joke is to be taken sexually or not

Lol, no not to be taken sexually. I like cats, they're groovy. And your cat sounds much like the cats I've had; with that don't give up attitude. :)

[losttime]

How old are you? Forgive me for asking.

Man Boutte already trying to get her on the rebound? You do work quick lol'

[stream]

Er, strange that someone should think anyone here as old or an adult. I wasn't aware we were anything resembling that.

Ah, the sweet sorrow of young love. :)

ROFLOL funny

Man Boutte already trying to get her on the rebound? You do work quick lol'

he is the biggest damn flirt we have I am thinkin

[LissaMarie]

Man Boutte already trying to get her on the rebound? You do work quick lol'

Nah, I really think Booty was trying to determine what the right advice would be to give to LIT. It's a little different when you're speaking with a teenager because there's so much more of their life ahead of them, you know?

(Just didn't want Booty to feel like a D.O.M. :D)

[lostintime25]

You guys are the best! It was really scary because he was my only friend because he had isolated me from them and I was worried he would do something irrational and hurt himself and he is my best friend and he told me if we broke up I would never see him again or talk to him so it was all or nothing but we just weren't working together

[LissaMarie]

You guys are the best! It was really scary because he was my only friend because he had isolated me from them and I was worried he would do something irrational and hurt himself and he is my best friend and he told me if we broke up I would never see him again or talk to him so it was all or nothing but we just weren't working together

Yikes, sounds like you were lucky to get out of that situation, LIT. It also sounds like a lot of the things he has said and done (including the threats to hurt himself) were all an effort to control and manipulate you. That's uncool for anyone to treat you that way....so don't let them! Be his friend but don't be his puppet, you know?

The good news is that you get to make that choice for yourself and I'm happy you're making the right choice. :)

[stream]

Nah, I really think Booty was trying to determine what the right advice would be to give to LIT. It's a little different when you're speaking with a teenager because there's so much more of their life ahead of them, you know?

(Just didn't want Booty to feel like a D.O.M. :D)

I was kiddin Lis (kinda)

[LissaMarie]

I was kiddin Lis (kinda)

I actually was responding to LT, not you Stream....but I know you both were kidding! :)


But Booty is a BIG OL' flirt. Not with teenagers though. He's also smart enough to know better! :D

[losttime]

Nah, I really think Booty was trying to determine what the right advice would be to give to LIT. It's a little different when you're speaking with a teenager because there's so much more of their life ahead of them, you know?

(Just didn't want Booty to feel like a D.O.M. :D)

Oh I was really just giving Booty a hard time. i really didnt think he was doing what I said LOL

[Here'sLOCKEing at you,Kid]

Hi ya', LT! Long time, no see.
and yes, Boutte has incredible wisdom and would be the one whom one would turn to for advice, with absolute certainty he is there for you with no ulterior motive. He's the bestest. They don't come any better than him.:)

[stargazer]

Hi ya', LT! Long time, no see.
and yes, Boutte has incredible wisdom and would be the one whom one would turn to for advice, with absolute certainty he is there for you with no ulterior motive. He's the bestest. They don't come any better than him.:)

I totally agree with this

[Jeremy]

Hey, come on now guys. You know I know better than to take advantage of someone while they're vulnerable. You're confusing Boutte with me. :p Seriously, though, I like to help anyone whenever I can regardless of whether there might be any kind of profit I could gain. I don't understand those who could turn a blind eye to those who may be suffering. After watching and reading some stuff about Sudan, it's evident that that's wrong. "Oh, sure, we as the U.S. government will say we'll help, just to keep you idiots on good terms with us, but don't expect us to actually do so."

[boutte]

Nah, I really think Booty was trying to determine what the right advice would be to give to LIT. It's a little different when you're speaking with a teenager because there's so much more of their life ahead of them, you know?

(Just didn't want Booty to feel like a D.O.M. :D)

What's a D.O.M.?

(and thanks for the kind words ladies.)

[JohnQ]

Dirty Old Man? LOL I've been accused of that! ;)

[boutte]

Dirty Old Man? LOL I've been accused of that! ;)

Hell, I'm proud of it. :D

[Jeremy]

Nah, it's short for domination. Boutte isn't someone who dominates. :p

[stream]

I think what we have here is a generational difference of acronyms, that is what happens when you let Kiddos in here

[boutte]

Nah, it's short for domination. Boutte isn't someone who dominates. :p

You just don't know. :rolleyes: