Break up

lostintime25 · #1 04-09-2010, 07:01 PM

hey guys... i just went through a really hard time, and ended up breaking up with my boyfriend of 1 year, which sadly is my longest relationship. It was the most meaningful one too, and the worst is that we both love eachother so much, but we are SOO not right for eachother and it kills me that it took me a year to realize, i wish he would have had a sign on him that said, we wont get along : (

rachelskid · #2 04-09-2010, 07:17 PM

ahhhhh....

I'm sorry.

But, you know THIS is what makes life worth living, as hard as that is to believe. You have learned from him the things you want in a guy and the things you do not. and, you have great memories. the pain sucks. i know. but you WILL be ok. and you will be grateful for the time you had with him.

in the meantime, the forum is here!

lively music and a little dancing around by yourself is always fun. and going out with friends too.

Here'sLOCKEing at you,Kid · #3 04-09-2010, 07:27 PM

well, stick around, Lostintime, because there are wonderful people here who have broad shoulders to lean on. It is amazing the friendships you can find here.

lostintime25 · #4 04-09-2010, 07:28 PM

thanks, that's what I'm trying to keep telling myself. Music is totally helping and I'm just immersing myself with lost and friends and other things. our memories are great, we had a lot of fun, but it just wasn't working.

Here'sLOCKEing at you,Kid · #5 04-09-2010, 07:32 PM

it didn't work for Kate and Sawyer either. I think we can find lessons from the show, actually.
you will find your soul mate eventually, Lostintime.

boutte · #6 04-09-2010, 07:33 PM

How old are you? Forgive me for asking.

lostintime25 · #7 04-09-2010, 07:36 PM

thank you guys for all of your support, when things started getting rough I got isolated from most of my friends, which made the break up even harder because I was pretty much starting over. Uhm, as far as the age question I don't know how comfortable I am answering that, I feel like I am younger than most of you, but I am legal lol

stream · #8 04-09-2010, 07:39 PM

{{{{{{{{huggs}}}}}} sweety most men ar pigs, and the sooner you learn the better off you are, no I am kidding, but it is hard to stay synced up with people these days, you can do better anyhow

chester · #9 04-09-2010, 07:41 PM

What's your star-sign? Likes, dislikes, etc?

notsolost42 · #10 04-09-2010, 07:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stream

{{{{{{{{huggs}}}}}} sweety most men ar pigs, and the sooner you learn the better off you are, no I am kidding, but it is hard to stay synced up with people these days, you can do better anyhow

roflmao.....pfffttt